Loungeparties has been hosting successful swinging social events for over 2 and half years and was the first site to do them.
Our site has now evolved into a vibrant online community. All members can contact each other, suggest/host meet ups or private parties and see who will be attending forthcoming events before they commit.
Membership to the site is free as are most of the parties, to join you will need to submit face photos of both partners, mainly to get rid of the timewasters, history has shown that couples who hide their faces also tend to never turn up. We only accept applications from couples and bi girls.
Although based in London we have couples from all over and hope our parties and socials will branch out.
What should I expect at a Loungeparty?
At the moment, we hold two types of Loungeparty events:
Socials: Our socials are held in bars and other public venues where sexual contact is not appropriate. This is an opportunity for you to socialise with other Loungeparty members. In order to attend, you must put your name on the relevant guest list. Your friends are welcome provided they become members of Loungeparties and put their names on the guest list before the event. There may or may not be an After-party organised for after the Social. An evening that is purely a Social will generally be free of charge as we dont usually need to pay for a venue. Anyone who attends a Social (with or without an After-party) will get an LPV (Loungeparty Verification).
After-parties: Only those who have attended that evenings Social may attend any After-party that follows. You may, however, choose only to attend the Social part of the evening if you prefer. The After-party will be held at a private apartment or hotel suite and there will be a charge, payable in advance, to cover our costs in securing the venue etc. Couples and single girls who are members of Loungeparties are eligible to apply to attend. At an After-party, you are encouraged to explore sexually and to party subject to a few common-sense rules set out below. Noone is pressured to take part, however, and you may choose not to play or to play only with your own partner and simply enjoy the erotic environment.
Single men may not attend any of our events (and this includes men whose partners leave early).
Food is not provided at Loungeparties and you are advised to have a light meal before you arrive. Food might be available at some locations the social might be held in.
For your security, venue details will only be available to those on the guest list and, in the case of After-parties to those who have paid their contribution towards costs.
Our rules and etiquette apply to other events organised by or through Loungeparties to the extent appropriate.
What should I wear/bring to a Loungeparty?
Show that you have made an effort and try to look sexy but, as the first part of the evening will take place at a public venue, your dress should be appropriate to that. At the After-party, anything goes and most people will remain in their original clothes which usually get discarded to some extent during the evening!
You will need to bring enough money to pay for any refreshments at the Social and bring along whatever you would like to drink at the After-party. You will not need cash at the After-party and, for security, are advised not to bring unnecessarily large amounts.
We provide condoms but you are advised also to carry your own for convenience and particularly if you have particular requirements or tastes.
You are welcome to bring your sex toys for use at the after-party although heavy fetish gear is unusual.
You will be responsible for your own possessions.
Common-sense Rules and Etiquette
Always treat other guests with respect.
No means no. Please be polite if you dont want to play with someone. On the flip side, dont take a refusal personally.
Know your own boundaries and those of your partner (if any) before you attend. Please try to keep any issues or arguments that arise away from the public arena of a party.
Respect the boundaries of others
Soft swap/ full swap/ oral sex/ girl-girl and group activity are all common. It is up to you and your partner whether or not you play together. Anal sex is fine but rare. Men exploring their bi-sexuality is acceptable but unusual.
We reserve the right to ask anyone to leave if they break the rules or offend other guests happily we have never had to kick anyone out!
Do not assume that, because someone is playing, you are automatically invited to join in. Wait for an invitation either explicitly or by a positive response to you making minor contact. (Stroking someones arm or leg is often a good way to show that you are interested in joining in without risking offence.)
Due to the nature and size of our venues, we cannot provide privacy. If you play, you will need to be comfortable with others watching.
Please be aware that, while the majority of female LP members are bi-sexual, some are straight. Dont take anything for granted!
Do not worry about not being able to get, or losing, erections. This is a very common situation (and there may be increased performance anxiety at a swinger party). Everyone has experienced this and understands it.
Dont drink so much that you are offensive or unable to enjoy the experience!
Safe Sex
Safe sex is practised without prompting and condoms are used unless specifically agreed by those taking part.
Basic hygiene requires washing your hands between anal contact and any other contact.
It goes without saying that you should keep yourself clean.
Smoking Policy
[to be decided according to the views of LP members]
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